I’d
like to revisit something I said in class dealing with the “aha” moments and
synchronicity. Throughout my
experiences, I have been aware of the things around me based on what I need.
For example, I don’t always think of eating food or having a snack except for
when I’m hungry. An example I provided in class was the Volkswagen and Honda
illustration. When you buy a new car, you tend to recognize that vehicle more
often than not. That’s because you now have a connection to it and you share
some sort of experience with it.
This
is where the “aha” moment factors into this blog. Also known as second-order change, this is “a profound
restructuring of the self, of one’s way of being, or of one’s way of viewing or
perceiving the world (Guindon, 2002). In other words, this is a realization of
how you perceive the world and what it is to be you. I think that in order to have synchronicity, an “aha”
moment would have taken place and you most likely will be aware of it. The “aha” moment opens your state of
awareness to your environment and your needs. Thus, you can unknowingly be
placed in a moment that offers synchronicity.
I
hate to use the printing press scenario because I think that horse has been
beat enough, but it does illustrate what I’m trying to convey. If Dan did not
have an “aha” moment when he had a setback in his career and eventually realized
that he wanted to ultimately own a small town press, he would have never connected
the proverbial dots when he spoke to the individual who had a printing press.
The awareness of his dream and the “aha” moment that facilitated this gave way
to his curiosity and awareness of resources around him.
As
counselors, if we were able to help individuals achieve their second-order
change moments, we would be providing a great service. This would allow
individuals to become self-aware of their needs and may possibly uncover some “printing
press” dreams. We might achieve this through questioning and critical thinking
in the clinical setting or at and office. Then the skills could be transferred outside and the client
would have a better understanding of what to do out of the office and would
allow some independence. Career counselors would provide the necessary vehicle
for the client to move down some unsure paths and ultimately get them on the
road to a successful career/future.
Reference:
Guindon, M., & Hanna, F. (2002).
Coincidence, happenstance, serendipity, fate, or the hand of god: Case studies
in synchronicity. The career development
quarterly, 50, 195-208.
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