After reading Guindon and Hanna’s (2002) article, I must
admit that I was skeptical about the concept of synchronicity. Rooted in
philosophy, I found the ideas presented within the article to be believable but
difficult to grasp from an objective standpoint. Guindon and Hanna (2002) described
second-order change as a “profound restructuring of the self, of one’s way of
being, or of one’s way of viewing or perceiving the world”. Also referred to as
an “aha” experience, individuals are able to gain insight and discover their
true, authentic self. After giving thought to this concept, I could not think
of a personal example of an “aha” moment I’ve experienced myself. Although I
have had moments during which I’ve been able to reflect and gain insight into
myself following a negative event in an effort to learn something about myself
and grow from the experience, I was led to question whether these “aha” moments
really exist. During my senior year of college, an upcoming sophomore was
fatally struck by a vehicle while walking outside. She happened to love
butterflies. Since her passing, I have heard many stories on campus about
butterflies fluttering around and following her friends and family. In
my view, these have all been “aha” experiences for these individuals who
now recognize the butterfly as being this young woman. Fortunately, I do
believe that all individuals are capable of gaining self-awareness, reflecting
inward, and developing into more authentic version of ourselves. These “aha”
moments may allow not only allow for transcendence, but also lead to a more
satisfying life.
In
regard to the phenomenon of synchronicity, I had a difficult time wrapping my
head around “apparently inexplicable occurrences that link two or more events,
usually an inner thought or feeling and an outer event” (Guindon & Hanna,
2002). This is not to say that I don’t believe that they occur. I am a firm
believer in divine intervention, fate, and coincidence; however, I could not
relate to the concept of synchronicity which made it that much harder for me to
imagine. I found the case studies presented within the article to be seemingly
farfetched. It seems unlikely that these events actually occurred although I am
sure that time constraints prevented the complete story of each case to be
revealed. Because it appears that synchronicity may ultimately lead to a more meaningful
life aligned with our authentic selves, I feel as though it is important for
future counselors to embrace and explore these “aha” moments and synchronistic
experiences with our clients.
References
Guindon, M. H., & Hanna, F. J. (2002). Coincidence, happenstance,
serendipity, or the hand of God: Case studies in synchronicity. The Career Development Quarterly, 50,
195-208.
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