Post 5
I enjoyed reading the synchronicity article and found myself
humming Police songs…just
kidding…sort of. I am open to “nonlinear and acausal phenomenon” as a factor in
the outcomes of life (Guindon & Hanna, 2002). It made sense to me that
Guindon and Hanna (2002) encourage considering synchronicity as a component of
holistic counseling. For me, I viewed this idea as meeting a client “where
he/she is at”. It seems like a further pursuit of a client’s unique perception
of events. I think as counselors it is important to look for every avenue
possible to achieve the client’s goals. I also kept thinking of the previous
article on spirituality and religiosity by Duffy. Synchronicity seems spiritual
to me also. It has of qualities hope and faith that are often considered
helpful in career choice, decision-making and pursuit of goals. It seems to me
that human beings are continuously trying to make meaning from events. I think
it adds to our sense of safety and security in the world. I am interested in
Eastern philosophy, and I have to admit that I do not know as much as I would
like at this point. I always welcomed the Buddhist tenet of interconnectedness.
In some spiritual way, I resonate to the idea that my actions and life are
connected to everything and everyone else. I think we can’t help but impact
others and our environment daily, in the smallest of ways. I think dreams can
be very meaningful. I have had dreams that I thought was my subconscious
speaking to me when it could gain an audience.
I think we can consider the first form of synchronicity this
article in terms of being at the “right place at the right time”. Guindon and Hanna (2002) say that the
first form of synchronicity is a coincidence between our personal intuition and
an outer event happening at the same time. I know several personal examples of
this happening to people in my life. My father-in-law says that after
completing his plumbing apprenticeship, he considered starting his own business
–at that time a business became available to him to purchase and a friend of
his father offered him a very profitable job that would pay for “start up”
expenses. It all fell together and he believed he was on the right track. He
has owned that business for 25 years. My Italian mother always tells me that if
the universe is fighting you too hard, you are on the wrong track. The Italian
side of me is quite superstitious and believes in “signs”. My own father (I
just found out) was on his way to one job interview and stopped at a red signal
light next to his (then, future) employer (of 28 years). He decided to turn in
and find out if he could work there. He had quit his current job the day before
on a “feeling”. He walked in and the man hired him on the spot. My dad says he
would have never turned in there if the light didn’t turn red. He said he “just
had a feeling” the day before when he quit the first job, that there was
something more out there for him. By the way, that all happened on my first
birthday. Malcolm Gladwell’s book Outliers
talks about highly successful people. He spend some time talking about how
people are often in the right place at the right time – Bill Gates being one of
them. I think this is an interesting aspect of career development. Plus I would
hate to miss out on the mystical and magical of the world. :-)
Reference:
Guindon, M.H. & Hanna, F. J. (2002). Coincidence, happenstance, serendipity, fate, or the hand of god: Case studies in synchronicity. The Career Development Quarterly, 50, p. 195- 208.
Reference:
Guindon, M.H. & Hanna, F. J. (2002). Coincidence, happenstance, serendipity, fate, or the hand of god: Case studies in synchronicity. The Career Development Quarterly, 50, p. 195- 208.