While reading
the article “Coincidence, Happenstance, Serendipity, Fate, or the Hand of God:
Case Studies in Synchronicity,” I was very conflicted by what I had been
reading, and even now am confused about how exactly I feel about the article
and the idea of synchronicity. According
to the article “many counselors are aware that unknowable instances of
coincidence, happenstance, and chance factors can play a significant role in
career opportunities” (Guindon & Hanna, 2002, p. 195). I very much agree
with this statement because there are many things that happen in life that
cannot be explained and that we just sum up to luck or chance. However, with
that being said, I do not feel as if people should just wait around for some
sort of “sign” that they are on the right path.
When reading
Dan’s case study, I was completely floored by the fact that Dan resigned from
his job and had no real plan of how he was going to support his family. It
almost seemed as if he was waiting for some wonderful opportunity to fall in
his lap. Although this wonderful opportunity did later come to him when he was
able to run his own small-town press, I think that it is completely ridiculous
to think that things like this often happen to people. Although this is
something very lucky that happened to Dan, it would be detrimental to think
that this could be a common occurrence for everyone.
Although I
believe that it is important to have hope and faith that things will turn out
for the better, I think that it’s unrealistic to leave your fate to chance. To
me, this idea of synchronicity may be an excuse for people to sit back and wait
for something important to happen. Although
my view may seem negative or harsh, I think it may be harmful to put too much focus
and attention and things that may happen just as a coincidence.
All three of the
individuals in the article received career counseling and according to the
authors “the use of fantasy exercises, meditation, and dreams assisted these
clients in reaching the transcendental ‘aha’ experience after which meaningful
coincidences occurred” (Guindon & Hanna, 2002, p. 205). Overall, I do not
believe that dreams and other “signs” are realistic in making career decisions.
Although these types of things can give clients hope that they are headed in
the right career direction, it may not be realistic to think that clients will
experience an ‘aha’ moment. I believe that there are other more reliable ways
for a client to receive career counseling than waiting for a “sign” that may never
come.
Reference
Guindon, M.H. & Hanna F.J. (2002). Coincidence,
happenstance, serendipity, fate, or the hand of God: Case studies in
synchronicity. The Career Development
Quarterly, 50(3), 195-208.
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